Immigrating as an adult in the 19th century would have been challenging enough. Can you imagine what the trip might have been like for a young child?
Or for a parent needing to keep a toddler safe—or an infant relatively clean and comfortable—during the journey?
While collecting accounts for A Settler’s Year: Pioneer Life Through The Seasons, my primary focus was the New World experience. I wasn’t able to use most of the travel accounts I found—but they’re part of the big picture.
The upheaval of leaving one’s home and everything familiar must have been enormous to a child.
Ingeborg Holdahl (Alvstad) was four when she left Valdres, Norway with her parents and five siblings. “My mother was not well and could not cope with all of us all the time,” she wrote later. Their ship began leaking so badly that all on board might have drowned had not a Portuguese cattle ship come to their aid. “I was let down in a basket [to the life boat] all by myself. There had to be haste and no attempt was made to keep members of a family together.”
Once safe on the Portuguese ship, “What a hubbub on board. No one having any definite place to go. Parents hunting for their children and children trying to find their parents. …I remember being jostled around in a dense crowd of people almost smothering me… Finally someone picked me up and set me on a long table where I sat, tired and not daring to move. It seemed an endless time of waiting until my father came and found me.”
By 1899, when these women and children from eastern Europe immigrated, they at least had a faster journey than those traveling decades earlier.
In big families, older children were expected to help tend younger ones. Given the perils inherent in the journey, those eight- and ten- and twelve-year-olds shouldered a lot of responsibility. This Polish mother of nine clearly relied on her oldest girls.Three of these Dutch girls are holding younger siblings.

(Interesting that the parents are dressed in current fashion, and the children in traditional attire.)
Still, children are resilient. Perhaps many of those old enough to keep themselves safe enjoyed the adventure.
And parents needed only to glance at their children to remember why they left everything familiar behind: to create a better life for future generations.